Women Supporting Women: Lilac & I discussed a rare condition-Premature Ovarian Failure/Insufficiency

Women Supporting Women: Lilac & I discussed a rare condition of having Premature Ovarian Failure (POF) or Premature Ovarian Insufficiency (POI).

Women with this condition realized that they are too young to be old.

Check out the videos on:

https://youtu.be/kpQfuFVIdXs - longer version

https://youtu.be/wjej2mI38YE - shorter version

Note: The video may be a sensitive topic to some and I understand that this entails a different reaction from the viewers. But before you do that, I want you to look at the mirror and ask yourself: Who am I to judge Leilani, Lilac, someone or anyone?

Lilac speaks a bit Bisaya and I speak a bit Ilonggo, so we had to communicate in English with the intention to share with other women as well located in other parts of the world.

Fear less, hope more, eat less, chew more, whine less, breathe more, talk less, say more, love more, and all good things will be yours ~ Swedish Proverb

POF/POI may be a rare case in the Philippines and the term varies from country to country. From experience, Doctors and Specialists handle the situation differently.

It's important to have a healthy lifestyle with this condition especially when the person is too young. Be strong. It's really difficult esp with infertility.

It ruins future plans if you're thinking of having a child and family. There are different options, just a matter of accepting it and moving forward. Reach out to people who have a similar condition to share your feelings. The POI/POF group is like a bank of knowledge. Sometimes when you ask the doctors, they would only say the standard stuff. ~ Lilac, 30, Theatre Practitioner, OFW, London, UK

For women in pain and are suffering in silence, YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

There are different groups you can join for support:

POF/POI Philippines: https://www.facebook.com/groups/748052692755863

POF/POI Worldwide: https://www.facebook.com/groups/pof.poi

https://www.facebook.com/groups/POI.POF

Physical, Emotional, Sexual (Rape&Battered)Support System for Women Online: https://www.facebook.com/groups/380640256272318

The ABCs of Big M:

A-always take time for yourself

B-be flexible

C-cut yourself some slack

D-do something new

E-enjoy each moment

F-find a hobby

G-get a new outfit

H-hug everyone around you

I-ideas are everywhere

J-join a support group

K-keep a sense of humour

L-let go of small disagreements

M-Make a date w/ a loved one once a month

N-notice the birds singing

O-open a journal and write

P-put together a memory box

Q-quit thinking negatively

R-remember to thank those who've supported you

S-support a new charity

T-take a walk with someone

U-use a special talent to surprise a friend

V-voice your opinions with truth & love

W-wishes come true

X-extra patience will pay off

Y-you are important and don't you forget it!

Z-plenty of zzzzzz's will calm emotions & your heart

Big M is part of every person's life, MAN & WOMAN. Less Testosterone and Less Estrogen. Men are not comfortable talking about their physical and emotional changes, unlike women.

If you are going through hormonal changes, there are loads of negativity associated with this condition: hot flashes, mood swings, decreased sex drives, memory loss, ability to concentrate, anxiety level, etc.

Make sure to find your Big M Buddy to freely discuss this condition and changes!

Lilac, thank you for being brave and for standing up for this cause. We shared the same sentiments and let's continue to help these people suffering alone. I thank you for your precious time and for sharing your experiences with me and the world. All the best in everything you do and enjoy each moment of your life. Cheers! xx

For viewers, take a look at these books:

Premature Menopause Book by Kathy Petras - WHY NOW? WHY ME? Today, millions of women in their twenties and thirties, many of whom are just beginning to plan a family, are receiving the shocking news that their reproductive years are already over.

Chicken Soup for the Soul: Menopause for those women having a normal Menopause Period of their life. Those women in their 45s - 51s

This mission is not only for POF/POI but also for those women, men, gays, lesbian who was physically, emotionally and sexually abused. I spoke to few victims and the experience definitely left a scar on what these perpetrators have done.

Be Brave and Be a Better Version of Yourself. We are here to support you. ❤️

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